Saturday, May 29, 2010

其实。。。

其实,我没有你想的那样好。

Sunday, May 23, 2010

Good Deed

Today, I've returned the lost phone to its owner~~

It all started from yesterday. When we found the lost phone in the shuttle bus in Taman Pertanian Malaysia. I called to the 1st number on the 'call out' list. The person was the phone owner's mom. She said she will try to contact her daughter friends but she had no idea who she went out with. So she ask me to bring back home and her daughter will come and collect her phone.

So basically today I just wait at home and wait for the phone owner to contact me to collect back her phone. Too bad she have to come all the way from Shah Alam to Cheras Maluri to claim her phone.

It's amazing how you will feel when you did a good deed. I feel quite happy for the lady for finding back her phone because I know how bad it felt if one's lost the phone.

What I did not expected was she actually bought me a cadbury chocolate as a token of appreciation =]

Thursday, May 6, 2010

人言可畏,人心叵测

人言可畏。
‘畏’ 可以是敬畏,也可以是畏惧。
‘人言’用得好,就能带出很好的信息;反之,用得不好,就是谣言的祸根。

人心叵测。
一个人心里在想什么,我们永远都不知道。
这就是为什么搞好人际关系是世界上最困难的工作。

说话,是一门艺术。
人,事,物的好坏,就看我们如何用语言去描叙他。
我们可以把一件事说得天上有,地上无;也可以把一样东西贬得一文不值。

最难防的,就是话中有话的人。
表面上的言辞,其实背后还有另一个含义。
你永远都不懂他是在褒奖你,还是在贬低你。
仔细回想,我们身边又有多少是这样的人?
一方面说你为人善良,乐于助人;其实是在暗讽你,利用你。




人家都说:这个人嘴巴真贱!
与其说他的嘴巴贱,倒不如说他的思想更贱。
我们心里,脑里在想什么,就用嘴巴来说出口。
毕竟嘴巴只是我们用来传达信息的一个‘工具’而已。

传谣言,是我们的本能;听谣言,使我们的本性。
我们先天就喜欢把快乐建立在别人的痛苦上。
我们后天才明白己所不欲,勿施于人的道理。

俗话告诉我们:谣言止于智者。
却没有告诉我们,智者是如何制止谣言。

Monday, May 3, 2010

默契

你,永远都充满着神秘感。。。

是因为我不知道你心里在想什么?
是因为你什么都没跟我说?
还是我们之间缺少了那份默契?

对我来说,默契是由一天一天,一点一点的沟通与交流而建立的。
我们一天都说不上十句话,又哪来的默契呢?

我以为我开始明白你;
原来我还对你一无所知。

我们之间的默契,就由时间来证明,来考验吧。